A little background story:
I was “adopted” by Brent & Katherine Carter, a couple who lived in Milwaukee, OR. Katherine was my high school music teacher, now work as K-6 Music Teacher at a public school in Clackamas area, and Brent is a architect. Because they never have any children, they decided to “adopted” one of my best friend (David Kang) and I as their “children”. They’re basically our “god-parents”.
Time passed by, I became very close with Katherine’s side of the family (Cobbs). I knew them fairly well, played music and hung out with the cousins quite often, and visited my grandparents house every once in awhile. My Grandma, Betty Cobb, was an Elementary School principle, while my Grandpa, John Cobb, was the Director of Choral Music at Eastern Oregon University.
Grandpa John passed away on July 4th, 2006, at the age of 71 (the summer before David and I moved up to PBC, and Alice, our cousin, moved up to Tacoma, WA for Pacific Lutheran University). He died from complications due to pneumonia. He was in ICU for a good 2 or 3 months before he finally left the earth for a better eternal life.
On the memorial service, we sung the old hymn “Simple Gifts”, a 19th century French Shaker song, at the very end of the service: it was beautifully written lyric on a simple, lullaby-like tunes.
Last year’s Thanksgiving, I got to spend the time at my Grandma’s place (Betty) with my god-parents and Uncle John & Aunt Mignonne. We had great Thanksgiving meal prepared by Aunt Mignonne and Grandma, Mom made dessert; boy, it was wonderful! I remembered, right before we prayed for the dinner, we sat around the table and sung the song “Simple Gifts”, in honor of Grandpa.
‘Tis a gift to be simple, ’tis a gift to be free,
‘Tis a gift to come down where you ought to be,
And when we find ourselves in the place just right,
‘Twill be in the valley of love and delight.
When true simplicity is gain’d,
To bow and to bend we shan’t be asham’d
To turn, turn be our delight,
Till by turning, turning we come round right.
We miss you, Grandpa!
Oh..and Happy Thanksgiving to you all!